Of late there has been a very high rate of suicides; the
most affected being the youth. I’m sure those of us in this side of eternity
are asking ourselves what could drive a person into taking their own life. And yes
we are of the opinion that nothing could warrant or be reason enough for one to
take their own life. But if we were to delve deeper into the issue you will
realize that different people are weighed down by different issues. There are people
who will feel like the world is coming to end because they are unable to make
ends meet. Others just can’t imagine life without a girlfriend/boyfriend. Others
are shocked when they find out they have a terminal illness. Yet many more are
overwhelmed by issues in their families. The latter is always a big issue among
the youth.
My interaction with teenagers and young adults has made me
come to one conclusion; family situations contribute the greatest to the
stresses the young people go through. Conflict between parents is a major
headache for the youth. Most guys find themselves having to suffer consequences
for mistakes made by their parents or their guardians. When in such situations
they have nowhere to run to for advice or audience.
Therein lies what I think can help mitigate the challenge.
Our young people need to be offered avenues to ventilate about what is
happening in their lives. Those avenues are lacking since the parents are busy
earning the money, the teachers are overwhelmed by the students who are their
responsibilities. Older men and women in the society need to sacrificially
offer themselves to steer their lives and that of their children in the right
direction by being there for them at all costs. The same men and women need also to do
the same for younger men and women who haven’t received the same from the
parents.
When that happens then a few more lives will be saved. I
personally have purposed to be there for my two children but also go out of my
way to do so for as many young men and women that God allows me. I have
purposed to respond to the cry for help from our young people. The decision is
there for you to make; what will it be? Death or Life!!
You are so right, the concept of sacrificial love is such a myth in our society Kudos sir, you are MAN ENOUGH!!!!
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